People like me deserve terrible things apparently. Try GOP. The pain I'm in is deserved, the fear I have deserved and the fact that I'm struggling despite my education and the fact I have tried for years... Deserved. Welcome to America- if you are born into money or have a "fortunate" occurrence that removes you from debt you are a hard worker... but if you dedicate over 10 years to post high school education and accumulate that debt while attempting to find work of substance you are a lazy bum. God forbid you get sick... You are screwed and "deserve" it.
I need to finish the degree too. Chris agreed to care for her in the evenings so I can return to night classes, and as for looking for work I already am, but it needs to be enough that I can afford child care. at the moment, I'm trapped being a SAHM (sit at home mom) purely because of costs involved (we did the cost analysis on it, and the cheapest option was staying home, breastfeeding, and then making my own baby food which is healthier as well so that part is a win/win)
Я выделил одну важную деталь, которую "новые американцы" предпочитают угодливо забывать и заметать под ковер: отсутствие астрономиченского долга за образование. Остальное - проза жизни. Замужество, непланированный ребенок сразу после окончания учебы, отсутствие возможности выйти на работу, так как зарплата просто не покроет стоимость ухода за ребенка (сад или няня), муж со среднеамериканской зарплатой. Все одно к одному и очень обычная история жизни.